How to solve this problem?
I read an old book in Swedish. There is the same situation - a young man made a child to a deaf girl. He did not want to get married, and she was not very impressed. Sweden, fucking, early 19th century. A single maiden cannot raise a child - the community gives him up for upbringing in a childless pastor's family, the maiden and the boy of OBA pay alimony, both visit. And we still have the pride of hiding from alimony, so that "this cock doesn't have my money"!?? The wild... the wild!