and OK:

YYY: No, it’s not about discomfort. We (boys) are stupidly embarrassed about possible problems with erection with a new partner (and so exciting, and still all this stuff with rubber). Dumbness doesn’t seem to be hard enough, yes. And all the talk about feelings is blasphemy to hide the banal, sad and stupid truth.

And to catch up with what or shake up the one with which in the first time, is it cool what? Take Viagra until you get embarrassed. And in general, many girls understand your puzzles and don’t expect fairy sex moves from place to place. In a normal couple, sex only improves over time.