1: Invite the Gypsy to guess - break the pattern
2 cannot be. This is a complementary, symmetrical response. fighting with their weapons on their territory. In the best case, she will turn away, in the worst case - you will get a duel of views, or even easier - her relative will break your nose. Respond in an asymmetrical way. offer her to buy "A set of instantaneously rejuvenating creams from hives with rosomaha milk" or "Here are these incredibly powerful water filters"