I attended a therapeutic group, Gestalt, there were two boys and 10 girls. All the girls (All the girls!) They shared such stories, where they were thrown away, fled from them, and were outraged by this, worried, angry, outrageous. In every one of them. There was not one story about how she escaped from the "dumb" guy, who either asked about a separate account, or offered as a first date to walk around the park, look at each other, understand if it is worth continuing at all or not. I asked if they informed the guy of their decision. Of course not! He is dumb! I say, well, and then the guy ran away from you too) didn’t think about it? No one has accepted this option.