Xxx: I had a colleague who had betrayed her husband with a regular lover for many years in a row. So she did not spend days in the calendar, but kept a diary and detailed the sexual scenes there, what to do, creative nature, you need to shake out emotions on paper.
If the gun hangs on the wall... of course, the husband found the diary, gently speaking, was angry. But, she hanged him a bucket that it is she writes a female novel - pure water fantasy.