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A situation that characterizes my whole life... even the name coincided.

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In general, I go to the institute, I walk past the children's garden, and I see the painting with oil: a bunch of deprived children in the sandbox, with a dark expression of the face without any manifestations of emotions, something is carved with the shoulder in the sand, over them a teacher. Nearby is a man, jumping on the turnik, joyful, satisfied. And then the phrase of the educator (the very essence is in her): "Sasha, we don't play on the turnip, we take the shoulder and KOPA!"

I almost cried, the little one does not yet know that such a hernia is likely to happen all his life...