The female answer to this philosopher-psychologist:

If a guy is educated, stupid, polite, polite, attentive, caring, then any girl will tell him that he is such a wonderful, such a cool and irreplaceable... a friend. And because a polite, attentive and caring guy is not suitable for the role of an alpha male who would attract a girl at the level of instincts. and bla bla bla.

First, there are no generalizations. What would any girl say? If you have been told this personally, it does not mean that it happens to everyone, always and everywhere.
Secondly, the man in the eyes of women usually makes the alpha male not a height, not a square jaw, not a hairy, and not even a half-meter-long instrument. And the most important and necessary male ability: to quickly make decisions and act. Do you know that a woman immediately begins to feel subconsciously, if the most educated, polite and polite guy rubs and turns around, and everyone does not dare to move on to the matter and show their interest (romantic, erotic, whatever)? That in life together everything will be the same, and decisions will always have to be made by her. and responsibility for them. and solving problems. And the sweet and delicate companion of life will talk in the side and wait until she does everything for him. In the best case - polite afterwards will say "Thank you". and educated.