We sit with my mom in the kitchen, talking about pets (my rats she was afraid of, but cleaned cages). I have a fear of insects.
When your children want a spider, you’ll also clean it.
I: If my children want a spider, they will live alone.
M: Yes, I will give you one!
I: Well then my grandmother.
M: No, she won't agree, we've already tried to have a hamster with Andrew (brother), she's against.
I: Mom, when I have children, you will be their grandmother.