We have a live orchestra playing all kinds of retro on weekends near the house (I clarify: quite retro, not even the 80s), grandmothers and grandparents come from all the surrounding neighborhoods to dance old valses.
We go by with my husband, admire, play something slow, couples dance, grandparents invite grandmothers, active grandmothers invite grandparents, do not shower. Two grandmothers are standing, the other is cloudy:
All my life I have been standing modestly at the wall.