This husband :

If a husband does something without the instructions of his wife (for example, he buys powder instead of taking from a box for shoes with pots), he will be punished by all the severity of the family relationship.
And the aunt just pumps up the scales of education."

My sympathy to you. How do you breathe without permission?
We have a family principle: make a man, don’t speak by hand, don’t like how – do it yourself.