To blame a child for wrongdoing is the only effective way of upbringing. What do you think about it, all of these "ai ай so cannot" "and if you do so you will like it?" in the best case give 10% of the effectiveness of the method, but usually do not give "HE is the same child" :)
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The only effective way to educate a frightened, uninitiative and at the same time aggressive man? I agree. Are you sure you want your child to grow up?