Try to think from the right perspective. You all have mothers. Many even have sisters. These are female women in your close circle of personal communication, but they don’t need to be scary at all, and you’re ‘blue’ not to look at them in a scary context. The instincts of the pofig - animals outside with their adult children are quite close - if it were instincts, relatives would not be an exception. But as a man, you don’t think so. So it is the reason and culture that determines everything, so you just experience the voices of boy arrogance with girls and try to drop everything supposedly on nature.