They swim:

Shit, shit...
Men are not to blame for being bald. This is hormonal.
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And, then, after the birth on the crazy cocktail of hormones to disperse - it's just a baby whistle, right? They directly want to become begemoths, unlike men, who do not want to become bald. You will already decide on at least one side, but for both sexes.
P.S After childbirth I gained 20 kg, and they do not go away. Your husband is a guilty man, not an idiot. Loudly yes. To do so, life is like that.