I write about myself: 27 years old, a scientist, married, a daughter, I live with my parents, essentially on a joke, like in an anecdote, that the parent is bad, that the child cannot retire, is guilty of having entered a graduate school, I hope to get a candidate, but in a year or two, apparently, I will have to break up with the dream. So don’t ask why science lags behind and why young people don’t want to go into it.

At 27 years old, sitting on the neck of parents is unusual. With the funding of science, everything is really bad, but in your situation it is clearly not just that. I am also 27, a girl, I am studying in postgraduate school and paralelly choking. Somehow you get to combine a normal income with work on a dissertation, conferences, competitions, grants, etc. I am tired, there is no time for rest - but this is my choice. I can’t imagine how this is possible – to fold the legs and throw: provide a great scientist until retirement, dear parents. To regret yourself, of course, is easier than to smell.
And in my opinion, it is very strange to have a child, knowing in advance that you will not be able to provide it and transfer the care of providing it to your parents in advance.
All familiar postgraduate students work, and young university teachers or research staff, if the salary is small, almost always have jobs. There would be desire.
"Dependency", by the way, is written through "and", fellow scientist.