The idea of "three-year-old decree a child does not need" and "let us fight for its abolition" sounded, and I couldn't stand it.

A child is born the most helpless creature on earth. And in the depths of it there is a program:"Be someone – or you will die". Up to 3 years of constant presence of a significant adult is a question of survival for a child. At the unconscious level, it is caused by nature. A significant adult is one about whom the child thinks: "I am a child of this person, so he will take care of me, my survival is guaranteed to me, you can calmly develop." An important adult is not necessarily a mother. It can be a dad, a grandmother, a aunt, even a regular babysitter. But never - a teacher in the kindergarten or in the nursery or in the nursery.

I know that my grandmother in the 50s went to work when my child was 2 months old. I look at my mom, uncle, and aunt: they are psychologically degraded personalities. This is not fatal, they live poorly, but they are all psychological disabled. Not psychological, but psychological. I and many of my peers in the 80s were given in the basement at a year and a half. On average, we are more flexible than our mothers. I hope my daughter will have even fewer hysterics, neuroses and other cockroaches than I have. For one and a half years, nobody gave her anywhere.