Practice shows that changing a woman for a more resilient you are not worth anything, despite years of support and support.
A few days ago I literally read "War has no female face" Alexievich, and I occasionally remembered something from there. For the accuracy of the formulations I do not guarantee, you can swallow yourself, the pieces in the burn were laid out. Many women who fought on the same level as men, who sat with them in the same barracks and pulled them out of the battlefield, after the war were unnecessary. Because men wanted something beautiful after the horrors of the war, there was femininity. And the uniforms, which were seen only in male shape and stitched boots, did not resemble the best. Probably not to blame them for that. But to hope for them, to hope that the "stone wall" will not collapse on its hill - it hurts a lot of honor.