From the beginning they say that they are not like everyone else, but at the same time they demand traditional values like everyone else.

Read the Constitution of any modern state. Usually there citizens are equal in rights and duties regardless of their beliefs, unless it is the country of the victorious Sharia. In our country there is no legal separation on sexual orientation on paper, but in fact there is. Here is bringing the situation to what is written in the main law of the country, they want. Not they either. In some cases, women are the second type, in others, men. In one situation, the elderly have priority, in another, the children. And in theory, everyone is equal, if you read what is written in the laws, without looking at reality.