You can, of course, be nice and even wipe your wife’s ass. Because it is your wife. My first relationship was enough for my whole life. The child is nonsense. If you allow a woman to behave, that’s your problem. In order to avoid problems, there are rules: you need to ask, you don’t like what you want to say. If there are no rules, the result is shit. And the woman suffers, and the man's brain endures how bad he is and with him because his fool loves him so far. Yes, my brain boils up every evening and it’s good if it’s cool over the weekend. If I’m still wasting time on women’s twists, I’ll be working badly. Working badly = living worse.

Close people are not simply called close, they understand each other by half a word. Or even without words. If you don’t feel for each other, leave without regrets. No one should wipe the ass of anyone, neither the husband to his wife nor she to him, but you should not be selfish. You can always find a compromise if you can listen to the other.
And your position is great "Domestic" cheers: "You allow a woman to behave", "women’s twists", you set rules for her. Do you like to be silenced and not dragging without permission? However, there are women who love when they are not just bent in bed and put on cancer.
And yes, I’m a man, not "another dumb pussy", if anything. Married for 9 years, the flight is normal.