Maybe it’s just because you behaved like a b**t? It is unwise that a man wanted a normal relationship in the end - he sees that you need diversity and you give it easily and for free, so you can give it to anyone else without any problems. In addition, you may be overwhelming compared to the one who is not thinking too much about yourself.

Wanting to be friends is bad because you keep a normal guy in a friendzone.
Meeting and having sex, having fun – bad because you behave like a prostitute.
You allow yourself to pay for yourself is bad because you behave like a sales prostitute.
Now you’re still having sex, asking for nothing and paying for yourself – bad because you’re behaving like a cheap prostitute.
But at the same time, if you meet and refuse sex for some important reasons for yourself (not enough time to get acquainted, not ready, etc.) It’s bad because you break up as a whole.
Honestly, I am confused.