If your child can not go to a birthday to someone of your friends, because you do not have a bucket for a gift, and to go without a gift he is ashamed...
If all the friends of your teenage child went to the concert of his favorite band, which suddenly came to perform in your city, and he didn’t go because you don’t have a bubble...
If he falls in love with the best girl in the world, and you, again, do not have a bucket for him, neither in the cafe, nor in the movie, nor in the flowers...
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1st It’s full of Chinese toys. And my best friend had a rabbit with her own hands (although she could have bought some Barbie doll), and this rabbit I have 25 years later is my favorite talisman. It is about gifts.
2nd The concert of a favorite group is a matter of priorities. Even a middle-income family can buy a ticket. Provided that the family at this time does not spend, for example, all the money of the sick grandmother on the operation. These things are discussed together and in an adult way.
Three If there is a great love, teach the guy inventiveness. Your son is able to count what he is willing to give up in favor of flowers and coffee for the girl. Maybe a new girlfriend? Plus – teach him to think non-standardly, to come up with inexpensive but original ways of caring. This is a very useful skill for the future. And you won’t educate a majoric who thinks it’s enough to throw a girl’s cheek, and not mock. Nowadays it is easier for many people to open their wallets than to turn on their brains.