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Have you ever seen two or four year old kids? What kindness and education??? At this age, children at the level of development "what I see, I sing".
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Correction: they are at this level, if you deal with them at the level of what he understands, small yet!" And if you take for the basis the idea that the child understands everything perfectly - it suddenly turns out that children are not foolish at all and learn very quickly both good and bad. Somewhere it was that the most educated children in Japan, Korea and other parts of the East - and all because they are treated there not as children, but as future adults.