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A apparently incapable minor who is unaware of the consequences of having sex with a stranger? All of them fall on one side.

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You have a strange logic. A girl free from obligations to someone, got what she wanted - sex. Everything, she has to no one, no obligations and responsibilities except herself, and she is all suited.
But you have some mythical consequences for it. In front of whom and with what? She pulled the man under the gun in the bed and raped him? No, the married family man, himself, consciously took this step.
And it is he who is responsible for it. In particular, for the consequences, before his family, if he has a classic model of family relationships.And no one else shares this responsibility with him. Because he is an adult, capable man.
And you, by the way, trying to transfer responsibility or at least a part of it, to the girl, even if you think, you try to subconsciously justify the culprit.
Well, yes, and then all these judgments go with "friends" in the spirit - "and my one is a goat".
Of course, a goat, if you justify it, and in fact, by doing so.