I add :

The mandatory appeal of men is a consequence of the patriarchate, not the opposite. Patriarchate is harmful to men, and you didn’t know?

What does the Patriarchate give us:
Do you feel bad, scared or hurt? You are like a cloth, men do not cry. And men, afraid to show any feelings, dig everything in themselves until they explode. Male aggression has its roots, including in the suppression of "non-male" feelings. Heart attacks as well.
You are a man, you have to provide your wife and family! It should be both spouses.
The boy calls out, “You’re like a girl! "He’s crying, it’s offensive. Why is it a shame to be a woman?
A man must understand the instrument and be able to repair anything. What if he doesn’t have that tendency? All, not a man.
The man had a casus in bed. The end of the world is not a man. You are not robots, everything happens. But with patriarchy, this is a huge blow to self-esteem.
Do you like to sew, tie, collect icebans? Homo is something, nothing else. Yes, you can’t, because you can go down for a baab or a peeedika. So don’t do your favorite thing so that others don’t think about it.

I can continue forever. Are you really not upset here?