to this:

Married for 10 years, have a son. I drink less, I do not smoke, I earn more than my wife. I normally and calmly communicate with my wife I do not argue, but after a while the wife begins to attack. It is worth behaving like a fool, mother and insult, the wife immediately becomes calm and does not emerge.
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Read the theory of TISS - the dark and light sides of the woman's psyche.
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And my personal imho is a survival. She periodically checks you for masculinity – that is, if she can catch up on your neck. You roar and she calms down – she’s next to the strong.