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In a real equal relationship, a man will not make a woman a gift more expensive than she has the opportunity to give him in return.
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Do not confuse equality with equality. Or do you think a woman should have time to work at home and make money?

And about gifts... with your own hands holy and broken shell with initials, how will you appreciate it? Materials for pennies, and many days of manual work.
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In an equal relationship, both partners can both work at home and earn money. My wife and I are both engineers and we work in different companies. Work at home is divided roughly equally and completely interchangeable. In slippery situations (I am bad with cooking, and my wife had a tough day) I order to eat something delicious for the house: both are full, at the same time variety, or we go somewhere in the cafe. It is necessary to understand that work at home is an inevitable evil, so to drop it on someone, if both work, at least there is disrespect for the partner. And working and conducting a farm is not a nonsense for a long time, so does every first independent person.