Not because of the good life our parents left us unattended.
My parents were divorced. My mother raised me alone. There were no grandmothers, no one. When I was 11, my mom went to the guard for the first time. In the Taipei. for a month. There were no phones. On the wardrobe on 9 floors, only 1 phone at the wardrobe for calling emergency services. The first time I was left with a aunt who came to me every day, cooking. But she didn’t heat her mom for money. Then I was left alone. She cooked, washed, cleaned, and taught herself. I had money. My neighbor received my father’s alimony and gave it to me. From the age of 14, I was issued all powers, alimony, my mother's subscription, everything I received, kept, spent. All birthdays and New Year's holidays were home alone, and my mother had a working watch. It was hard. And if then the means of communication were available now, everything would be different.
About the rape. In Tomsk in the summer, an unknown man took the girl straight from the kindergarten. I searched the whole city for a few days. not saved. Most women will not be able to get away from the attacker, even one. And rape frostbite even the elderly. No one is protected. But that doesn’t mean you just have to spit and hope it all goes well.
To educate a child to be independent and to give it to yourself is not the same thing.