You simply, without knowing the real reason, attributed people to your guesses. If a child is regularly taken by a left-handed person, not a mother/father, then the most common reasons are:
My mother is alcoholic and drinks regularly.
- Mother hits on the children, more enthusiastic about the new hatchback.
My mother is often seriously ill.
- Mother "sitters sometimes in a psychiatric room.
In all these cases, children fall on relatives/neighbors, often hungry, can be subjected to violence, etc. This has nothing to do with lesbians. Co-habitant of Petya" or the neighbor of Vasya for a pair" could take - the situation would still try to figure out. They would have done right!
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Do not confuse. The right thing in this case is to ask your mom or aunt - who she is and what is there. And knowing that it’s okay to stay behind. And raise the alarm if the children are hungry, dirty, bitten. And to mock - the mother-in-law takes them or not, if the children are crazy - this is a reason to find out, if the children are full, healthy and cheerful - let them even a trained crocodile to the garden.