and Ogo:
No-no-no, I have such arrangements - and don't throw out socks, and my dishes when I don't want to.
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A "I want to wash laundry" - is it actually how? No one wants it, with very rare exceptions, but this is the adult life, the sweetest. And if you haven’t grown up to clean up after you, and you think it’s only a woman’s business (and you think she doesn’t want anything less than yours), then it’s actually right that you haven’t gotten married. Why is a woman infantile instead of her husband?