If a girl is "happy", then why mother it? And in general, if the husband is not of value and even not of forgetfulness, what prevents him from saying without any hassle "Do not curl more, please"?

And, you know, there is a joke about an old man and an old lady who lived together for a long time. The old lady, who very much loved the upper half of the bread, for her husband's care always gave him these "best" parts (although he did not ask), and she ate the lower. On the next anniversary, she thinks "No, no longer, I'm going to go off at least today" and took the upper one. The old man was delighted and grateful - he loved the bottom part of his life, but as a true gentleman, he did not object that his wife took the "best" from his point of view. Both of them were so careful, self-abandoned.