"... for girls, fortunately, do not write apophers "if a man refuses - it is he so cuddly, boldly rape"

Why, we are rubbed all our lives, to say, men want only one, you need to be beautiful, and he will immediately turn on the motorcycle, and then the matter of technology. And then suddenly it turns out that in all your tricks you are not needed by the vast majority, you can at least get rid of it, but at the stage of closer communication everything is likely to collapse because of something less superficial. A loved one may not have a desire. he is banally tired - no, well, of course, you can seduce him, only the quality of this process is quite strange. Do you think this is logical and understandable? So, in the shell, do the adult grandmothers tell these young fools?