In the years I worked in IT, I managed to get a bicycle, a car, a wife, children. One colleague is an avid fisherman, the other is a kms.
The specificity of the kind of activity of the Aitishnik gives him some charm, for which this site was once appreciated. As soon as he has a wife, children, a house with six hundred gardens, a father-in-law, back pain, etc., and most importantly, when he begins to talk about it, he becomes a little more than completely depressed, like any other housekeeper.