I’m not from the Mamulec coalition (or even rather the Childfrey), but people, what’s wrong with you? Why a woman should explain and justify the request with her not to smoke and not to load her, like a camel. In general, the request not to smoke should be treated more culturally, regardless of whether a young woman expressed it, a middle-aged man or a grandmother in general! You are talking to someone in the spirit of "Hello, and I have an ulcer!"?
And the reluctance to tremble about such personal things in the collective of people with whom the acquaintance is purely business - more than explainable, the people are mostly unstable, and they will immediately start to be harassed with the conversation of the genre "susiki-masusiki" and the invaluable experience of children's senior employees.