It’s shit anyway...
Judging by the development of discussions, to distinguish "the man, the time of asking" from "the man, to the grandmother clinging" here can be units. Per it makes sense to work on reducing one’s own inadequacy and infantility, rather than blaming men?
So let your men apply your advice to themselves and do not approach asking (and moreover knowing) about any hamacks. Can they not distinguish? So infantiles are inadequate, work on yourself a step march!
And another thing, if you approach something to ask - it is YOU need, you are in the role of the applicant, who can help, and can refuse.
I, for the first polite "No", but, for some reason, most do not get to the first time. Per it is they who then write long posts about hamsters?