Coincidentally I met a parent’s family. In the morning, mom and dad collect the butter for work, the child turns around:
– Maaaam... Paaaap... I don’t want to go to the garden!
There are many stereotypical answers to this - "do not harm", "you are what, in the kindergarten is so interesting", "and here is a good girl Masha never capricious". But here the parents give out, without saying:
Nobody forces you to want it!

It is not necessary to complete all children's hotels. Respect them must be.