here here :
The long hair of men.
I lived in Turkey for a year with hair long to the shoulder. No soul has even asked me if I am comfortable or if I am not hot. The country is quite homophobic. I may have been lucky with the area. But in Russia, people of the same level of education from a similar background did not give me rest, demanding that I cut my hair, bringing the argument one "elegant" of the other.

We just love to go into our own business and give advice.
Recall an old Odessa joke: Do you know why you can’t rape a girl in Deribasovskaya? Advice is tormented.