I love psychologists. My wife and I were constantly arguing about who is doing more at home and who is sick. Shortly before the divorce did not arrive, and what would be extra not to do, they both got into the management of the farm and grown with dirt and dirt so that the straight acted some formed.
Go to a psychologist, talk, consider so and so and he grit, like - come in a week, with a list of the things you did at home and what you noticed from the affairs of the spouse(s). So what am I? Such zeal from both on cleaning, cooking, washing dishes, etc. No one ever saw it :) Literally, the vacuum cleaners and plates were picked out of their hands, so that they could put a hole in the head. As a result, they agreed to divide the household equally, so as not to be ashamed before the doctor. What a joke - only understood at the threshold of the office, a week later :)