Do not scare the man:

What does this have to do with a partner? An ordinary girl, very clean. But the "natural smell" is disgusting, and the mucus is disgusting.

Sorry, but you are really sorry. You have problems, you need to be treated, at best with a psychologist. Just don’t transfer your personal problems to healthy people. The deviation from the norm is you, not the billions of people who don’t hate sex

Maybe he is just asexual. Nothing terrible, well, a man does not want to have sex, who is bad about it?