This is the whole essence of any deception: to impose on the people of the first world the ideology of the second.
Who needs this fat, I would like to ask? Everyone lives in their own bay, and in our age you can easily move from the surrounding of females / males to the surrounding of people and personalities.
I don't know how you do in the country of people and personalities, and we in the usual small township have male / female and people with personalities to live in the same multi-storey houses, drive children to the same schools and often even work together. Because the levels of intelligence, professionalism and earnings are not related to the level of psychological development and the ability to see in people the personality.