Okay well :

I drank a lot in marriage. Do not drink, but often until completely disconnected. After the divorce he stopped drinking, went to fitness, lost 30 kg, enrolled in the library, mastered guitar. And all why - by its nature, it is scary to stay alone. And in the state to which I launched myself for 20 years of marriage, the prospect of finding my second half is zero. So the motivation is the opposite.

Will you find another unfortunate - and everything is new? People know how to have fun.