Why do you have a family?
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Does it mean that family is an abandonment of its own interests? My hobbies do not bother anyone. If my wife wants to go to her sister with her friends, I will stay with the child. If she goes to the shops, I won’t go it uninteresting to me. If I go to the Epicenter of Dota 2 in Moscow, my wife will not go - she is not interested. We have enough common interests. I’m sorry for your family if all actions have to go through common agreement. It is better to let go and see your wife/husband happy than to look at a sad face all day long.