here here :

realistically
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In the circumstances of the average family, where both work, provide children and barely bring ends to ends, take and buy a gaming machine for a hundred percent of money, without consulting the family - suddenly more important than spending is, for example, a child brakes to put, this is just called infantile egoism.
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It is incomprehensible only to have children if "if they bring ends with ends".

Throw it off, and it happens that love is a carrot and quite reasoned hopes for a very bright future. Which suddenly did not come.