How to tell you...
In fact, when you mention that you bought a powerful computer, a car, like a toy, and spent the evening with friends, you hear one thing in response: "Well, I have a family, I can't do it."
What is the point of getting married? What does a man get from this?
You are not married to acquire, you are a child of a consumer society. And if it is more important for you to have toys, to do what your left heel will tell you at any time, and not to report to anyone, than to live a loved and loving person nearby, then you really do not marry, you have not matured before that. I married a woman I loved, and my "freedom" was not affected, because I was not looking for a mom, but a companion of life, a fighting friend. Those who marry to be blasphemed - well, to acquire with your words, then they complain that they are controlled, well what do you want. Yes, playing and meeting with friends no one interferes with me, a surprise?