I have neighbors grandparents. Sometimes I help them, something to pull, bring, etc., and they give thanks with chocolate tiles, then cookies. Well, because of my upbringing, purely instinctively, I first deny it, say it is not necessary, it is not worth bla bla bla, and then they still insist and I accept sweets. So recently I thought that this circus, they give - I accept and it's all about it. And recently I heard their conversation: "Look what a shy man has become, what he doesn't give, so he immediately gets enough and doesn't even try to give up, next time he won't get anything." I am grateful, but I ask nothing.