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I just can’t find a friend. Not the old, the old is over, the new. Even just a friend. Who read the same books as me, who would understand what I’m talking about.
In his youth he was a reckoned boy, but, at the same time, grew up among criminal mates, which gave a funny mixture of some intelligence and "concepts". Therefore, he was always and everywhere considered “smart and fair.” Once a long time ago, another life whirlwind brought to the collective, say so, people nearby, and for some reason I began to pick simple, understandable words in my speech. It has grown, you know.
I can no more! I live in St. Petersburg and I will be born. Lack of air, lack of life.
Not a troll, but just an old (54) grandfather.

Most people over 50 are immersed in family and family affairs. Fighting friend of single find is quite easy, there will always be someone who will be happy to introduce, but a friend, indeed, almost impossible. Women are not considered by you at all, are they not stupid, and counted?