to this:

Very logical...

Yes, it’s disgusting, but what to do is education. Strangely enough, it is more female. Mothers under the age of 30 are carried with their children as with a written bag: they cook them, wash for them, clean behind them. We hear from mothers: “Here you get married, your wife will cook and wash.” If you found a girl, then the fathers usually say, "Like - well and wonderful," and the mothers begin, "and she is a housekeeper? the agreed? Will you be able to give birth?" You bring her home, and almost from the threshold: "Yes, listen, my son has been used to eating three times a day, these are the dishes, his things are lying here, the cleaning equipment is here."
Women themselves educate in society the attitude toward a girl as a housewife who is obliged to serve her husband.
This is the problem, yes. Unfortunately, most people rarely think about their life, rethink something. They just sail on the current on the ship on which their parents boarded them. Infantile, non-independent, with "home building" in the head "men".

So here it is necessary to replace the mothers of domestic workers with girls equal to men who would raise this equality in their children.