Explain to me.
In my opinion, mutual help and a benevolent attitude towards others is the norm. If I see that I need help or I have been asked for it and I have the opportunity to help - I will help, and even the thought will not arise that I owe something in return. I can’t afford it, I will polently refuse.
I don’t understand why the aunts in most cases help each other without thinking "you owe me now"? And why, from the point of view of a man, very often you owe him even for some small help.