Reading the local heights, there is the impression that the majority of people on this site are schoolchildren, who only know about relationships from movies and the Internet. And what it means a woman should clean, wash, cook. And that the men are all goats here, who only want to catch up and escape. And everyone uses each other, demands something, chairs do not drop, for dragging furniture demands to shake the floor... Fuck, you are all from this universe?I am married, I have 3 friends. In our family completely equal treatment, both spouses work, household duties are performed in turn. At work without problems, we and the boys are filling a couch or furniture, and none of us will come to the mind to demand something from the girls. The girls will also help us in case of something: and the coffee cup is just so cooked, and on the table for the doctor will cover, just fuck for free, you understand? You are me and I am you". There is no "must" Just because we are all normal people. And when we help somebody, we really help a man, not a man/woman. Do you really need to start with yourself and your surroundings? You know, things like this attract things like this.