Property transactions are better done without being married. This as an example.

A notary to help you, you can do in marriage, only with intelligence. As an example, a couple decided to buy an apartment, she had two lamas, he had three, notarial shares in common property and all. Where did they get? In the case of divorce, the property was sold, the parents helped) divides according to shares.

And all your excuses are just insecurity in your partner that this is what it is, for the rest of your life. Not the love of Nietzsche.