I will probably explain:
He has been a member of her for six months, and she is not a go-go. Why not talk, since friends are so good? Ask me, what are you doing, friend?

So here’s number one: "It seemed like it couldn’t be, we’re friends. I’m not going to bother him with suspicions."
Number two: "I do not want to spoil the relationship, I will not encourage, I will calm down."