My grandfather was a military officer and my grandmother was a teacher. In a military town, the teacher in the only school overturned, she eventually led a household circle for girls.
One day a boy comes to work. In a military town in Siberia, in the 1970s, this was, frankly, not very common. He answers all the questions - and I don't plan to get married, because all the girls are stupid, so I have to know everything myself! This is what I call a thoughtful approach, and all of your "do not put a stamp in the passport, so that the property is easier to share"-profanation is something.